What is the procedure for an escort date?
Are you thinking about becoming an escort girl? Or are you already one step further and now want to prepare for your first escort date? Then this page is for you. Here you will learn everything about the escort date process – and what you should bear in mind.
What happens on an escort date?
One thing should be made clear from the outset: there is no blueprint for the perfect escort date. You and your guest are both individuals with your own ideas about what makes a great rendezvous. And, of course, the reason for the booking plays an important role. A short escort date of two to three hours will be very different from one that lasts several days.
Agenda item 1: getting to know each other
The most important part of your escort date is getting to know each other – after all, you and your guest are strangers at first. The first thing to do is find out if the chemistry is right between you. You will probably be quite nervous in the first few minutes. But don’t worry: even professionals are excited on their first date with a new client. Experience shows that it doesn’t take long for the ice to break – especially since you don’t meet directly in the hotel room, but in a restaurant or another trendy location.
A first date where you are the centre of attention.
Almost everyone has had a bad date in their private life. Separate bills, an extremely self-absorbed conversation partner, subsequent ghosting: unfortunately, such horror dates are not uncommon. This will not happen to you on an escort date. After all, your guest is paying a lot of money for your company and really wants to get to know you – with all your facets. If you two get along well and you can imagine more, there is nothing to stop you from having a romantic adventure afterwards. An experience like this is very special – and maybe it will help you discover a whole new side to yourself.
Is sex an integral part of an escort date?
As an escort lady, you are primarily paid for your time and your company. Any services provided are a nice bonus – provided, of course, that everything is fine between you and your date. The intimacies on your sed card are options, not constraints.
Nevertheless, you should make sure that your guest has no false expectations of the escort date with you. In both of your interests, be honest about what you can imagine in an erotic way – and what you cannot. This way, you will build up a solid customer base over time.
But back to the actual question: when you take a booking, we don’t make any 100% promises to your guest. Anything else would be dishonest. It’s entirely up to you what services you offer, no one else. If you fancy doing more, you can let your date know, of course.
Sex is considered a service on an escort date. Nevertheless, both sides should always feel comfortable. It is about much more than just the physical.
In particular, if it is your first escort date, you can tell your date. Don’t worry: our customers are real gentlemen and are happy to meet your needs. Often this makes the situation even more exciting.
The course of the escort date depends not only on your experience as an escort lady, but also on your guest. Most first-time bookers want to spend a relaxed dinner with you and get to know you better. As the active part, you shouldn’t be too forceful, but take your time – and pamper your date with a massage, for example. Once the tension has been released, you are sure to want more.
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What do I do if I don’t like something?
If problems arise, you should always talk about them. Both sides benefit when you approach each other openly. Your date also wants you to feel comfortable first and foremost. Therefore, always try to adapt to your guest – because you are sure to be happy to receive feedback. Of course, you can also contact us at any time: before, during and after your escort date. We are always available for you if you need us.
What types of escort dates are there?
The course of an escort date depends mainly on its duration and the lead time. A gentleman who plans his date with you several days, weeks or even months in advance usually knows exactly what he wants. Accordingly, he expresses his wishes directly – and is reluctant to compromise.
The situation is different for a guest who books you as an escort spontaneously or on the same evening. Here, of course, it is difficult to adapt to special requests at short notice – for example, with regard to your wardrobe. A certain willingness to compromise is essential in such an exceptional situation.
Short escort dates of 2-3 hours
Short escort dates usually take place directly at the hotel. You and your guest will meet in the dining room or at the bar. Occasionally, visits to the spa are also possible. However, we will always clarify this with you in advance – after all, you need to be prepared for this and bring suitable clothing.
At the beginning of the escort date, you get to know each other in peace and then move on to the erotic part. What this looks like always depends on you and your date. If there is still some time left after the tingling eroticism, you are welcome to offer your guest a relaxing massage – or you can visit the swimming pool together.
If the escort date went perfectly so far, there is no reason not to get intimate a second or third time. This is of course not a must – but an option. Every now and then it happens that the escort girl and the client just can’t get enough of each other and the date is extended. After the booked time, both sides say goodbye to each other.
Longer escort dates from 3-8 hours
On a longer escort date, you can assume that your date wants to get to know you better. As a rule, the gentleman plans in advance what he would like to do with you. Of course, we will share this with you so that you can prepare yourself and make the necessary preparations.
For this type of escort date, clothing preferences also play an important role. If your guest wants to go to an upscale restaurant with you, you should be dressed accordingly. However, if your guest is a tourist and wants to go on a sightseeing tour with you, you should opt for a comfortable outfit. It is also possible that both are planned and you should always bring a change of clothes.
Your guest’s clothing preferences do not always depend on the event, but often on their personal taste. It is also not certain whether there will be intimate acts on every escort date. In general, however, you should always be prepared for more than just a nice conversation.
Long escort dates from 12 hours to 2 days
For long escort dates, you won’t be able to avoid a suitcase with several outfits. Such dates can take place locally – i.e. in your hometown – or involve longer journeys. In any case, your date will place a high value on you always being neatly dressed and being able to do something together spontaneously.
When it comes to make-up and clothing, tastes differ. While one gentleman prefers a naturally beautiful escort girl, the other likes sexy eye shadow and sensually made-up lips. However, this will always be discussed with you in advance for longer meetings.
For long escort dates, the most important criterion is, of course, that you enjoy it. After all, who wants to book an escort lady for a wellness weekend who doesn’t enjoy going to the sauna and stays well clear of the hotel pool? As is well known, a romantic atmosphere only develops when both sides harmonise well with each other.
Long-term bookings from 2 days to a maximum of 1 week
Extended escort dates always require a certain amount of preparation – often several weeks or even months. This means that as a working escort model, you also have the opportunity to take part in longer dates. The financial aspect plays a decisive role here – but so do your personal interests.
Long-term bookings can include company on business trips, but also on skiing or summer holidays. When booking a holiday, you should not forget that you are booked to give the gentleman an unforgettable time. This means that you should be flexible and adapt your habits to those of your escort date.
Of course, everyone has different tastes. So one lady takes time off work to be able to take a long escort date – while the other lady finds her free time more important. A reputable escort agency will understand this. If you as an escort girl are not interested in long-term bookings, that’s perfectly fine. Just clarify this with your escort agency in advance to be on the safe side – because there are also agencies in the industry that specialise in long-term bookings.
Our tips and suggestions for a perfect escort date
We believe that an escort date does not necessarily have to be different from a ‘normal’ perfect date. The only differences are the payment and the way you make contact.
To ensure that your escort date remains a pleasant memory for you and your guest, we have summarised the most important information about the escort date process below:
Style
Reliability
Courtesy
The meeting usually starts in a restaurant or at the hotel bar. It doesn’t hurt if you dress up a little – because your companion is guaranteed to be pleased by an elegant, stylish appearance. With our VIP escort girls, we place great value on discretion and punctuality. Please plan your appointments carefully and inform us in good time if you cannot keep your date or if you will be late. Nobody likes to talk about money. Discussions about payment are a real mood killer. Be courteous – your date will be informed of the fee in advance and payment will be made to our agency in any case.
Remember: if your date enjoys your company and you have fun together, it is quite possible that the gentleman will give you one or two nice gifts.
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What other outcomes are possible for an escort date?
Companionship at events
Escort ladies are often booked as companions at events. This may be a public event such as the Cannes Film Festival, but it may also be a private wedding. Whether you present yourself as a cousin, friend or colleague in the latter case will be discussed with you in advance by the person you are meeting.
Entertainer
In some cultures, it is common for women to be an integral part of business appointments. Here, the escort lady acts as an entertainer and sweetens the evening with her appearance and eloquence.
Swinger club companion
Sometimes our clients like to visit couples’ get-togethers or swinger parties designed for couples. If our client is missing his “better half”, it’s your turn. Don’t worry: you don’t have to go beyond your comfort zone. Such spicy dates are clarified in advance. Only you decide what is and is not possible.
Your perfect escort date awaits you.
As you can see, a part-time job as an escort lady is not only lucrative but also very diverse. As a self-employed escort lady, anything is possible for you – but nothing is a must. You are your own boss and you can always decide for yourself.
Do you have any further questions about how an escort date works?
Please feel free to ask us here. We look forward to your feedback.
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